Lots of marriages fail these days as a result of the unrealistic
goals and expectations that couples set before marriage. Many people
venture into marriage for the wrong reasons; some cannot even say why
they are in it.
Some of them feel the need to get married because their mates are
doing it and they want the man they would end up with to fit some
fictional characters in their heads. These wrong choices or criteria
often make them fall into the wrong hands and ruin their chances of
being happy.
Find below some of the weird things ladies check in men before marrying them;
1. Height
This is the first thing a woman is likely to say when you ask her
about the things she desires in a man. Every woman wants men that are
tall. No one wants a short man.
Some women would even say they cannot date men that are taller than
they. Thus, when they meet men who are tall and have one or two traits
that fit their vague qualities, they tune in and fall in love with them.
2. Well-furnished apartment
Ladies do not want to settle for less now when they are planning
for marriage. Every woman wants a man who is successful and has
different properties to show with it. Men who have their own houses are
presumed to be better than men who don’t.
These houses have to be furnished to taste and classy for the women
to fit into them. If a man does not have this or something close
enough, some women would not agree to marry them.
3. Wealth
Every woman wants a man that can see to her financial needs. Money
is important to a lot of women out there and they would not settle down
with men who are struggling financially.
Men who cannot meet their needs may not even make the list of
suitors they would be considering. It does not matter whether the man
has some hidden demons as long as he has enough money in his account.
4. Cars
Now, it would amaze you to discover that some ladies would not date
men who do not have a car. As soon as you approach them on with your
‘leggedbenz’ and they do not see you holding a car key, it is a no-no.
Some ladies love comfort and would not trade anything for it.
Before you stand a chance to talk to them at all, your appearance has to
speak a ton about you.
5. Romance
Some ladies simply love it when they meet guys who are romantic;
they love men who would read lines of poems to them and make them feel
like princesses. They enjoy the attention they get from men like these
and would immediately fall for their gentle and romantic gestures.
As far as some of these women are concerned, the men’s ability to show love and care while being romantic is more than enough.
6. Citizenship
As soon as some ladies get to know the guys asking them out are not
Nigerians or they have dual citizenship, love happens. Ladies love the
concept of marrying foreigners or men who would give them the fair
chance of stepping outside the shores of this country.
You would be shocked to discover that some ladies would be willing
to marry some men as soon as they know they have passports to other
countries.
7. Presence of six packs
Women certainly love men who are physically fit; they believe guys
that are well-built are manly and would be able to perform better than
men who are not. The presence of six packs would make some of the ladies
melt and get wet on the spot. They would always choose a man with a
firm body over a man with a pot belly.
8. Sexual performance
Women no doubt love men whose strength in bed can be likened to
that of a stallion; they love men who can drive them to different peaks
of desire when it comes to sexual activities.
Knowing fully well that many women end up cheating in marriage as a
result of sex, they would rather go for men who would make them go wild
with desire and leave their bodies limp after being satisfied.
9. Occupation
Many ladies want to get married to men who have good jobs. They
will always ask about the men’s place of work within the first few
minutes they meet and would use the details to map out their plans about
them. Men who work in oil and gas companies are seen as better suitors
as compared to those who teach.
In the same light, bankers are preferred to mechanics. Women love
the idea of being known with men who have good jobs in the society.
10. Talent and fame
Some ladies want to marry men who are talented and famous. It is
highly ridiculous finding women who are ready to spend the rest of their
lives with certain men because of the talents the men have and how
famous they have become.
Therefore, it is not strange when you see some women who have
dreams of getting married to some artistes and public figures they do
not know personally. As long as they have talents they like, then
getting married to them is no big deal.
